New research shows that seven in 10 (69.8%) therapists working with children noticed an increase in under 18鈥檚 getting stressed over their exams or school over the past year, according to data from our 2023 Mindometer survey.
Increase in exam and school stress
It also showed that almost half (47.6%) of therapists working with children and young people say they saw an increase in stress in children the past year that was unrelated to school or exams.
Children, Young People and Families Lead at 香港六合彩精准资料, Jo Holmes, said:
鈥淔amily issues, the cost of living, exams, bullying, pressures of social media, self-worth, and the effects of the pandemic are some of the reasons why children are stressed right now. And we know that when a child feels stressed, it can have a tsunami sized effect on all areas of their life 鈥 including their ability to learn in school which impacts their futures.
Government investment desperately needed
鈥淣HS services simply does not have the capacity to meet the rising need in children and young people's mental health, so more investment from the government is desperately needed to increase access to therapy in schools. We believe that a paid counsellor should be available in every secondary school, academy and FE college in England - in Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland counselling is available to all post-primary children. We hope to see this reflected in the Chancellor鈥檚 Autumn Statement next month.
鈥淚t鈥檚 also important to state that many children find it difficult to verbalise their problems. But when a child expresses their worries and anxieties to a therapist, they help them to explore their feelings, using a number of creative and evidence based approaches to how best to manage their anxiety responses and gain back control.鈥
Young people unable to cope
School counsellor and 香港六合彩精准资料 member, Pete English, said:
鈥淥ver the last few years, I鈥檝e noticed more young people appearing to be overwhelmed and unable to cope with the everyday challenges of school. Many have been, and still are, affected by the impacts of covid, but whether I鈥檓 helping them with exam stress or friendship falls outs, on the whole children seem to be lacking the听internal resources to cope and are not as resilient 鈥 which heightens and exacerbates any feelings of stress.
鈥淧arents, who are also under more pressure,听seem to be more stressed too which young people pick up on. One technique I鈥檝e found that really helps is teaching my clients how to use breathing techniques to relax. I also teach them how their bodies react to any threats, like stress, so they understand the physical symptoms.鈥
Common causes of stress for young people
School counsellor and 香港六合彩精准资料 member, Susie Pinchin, added:
鈥淒ealing with the disruption of lock down still impacts children, both on an academic and social interaction level. Social media, with its ever-increasing apps and tools to troll, is also a constant source of stress for young people. With younger year groups, I often hear of friendship and family issues. Some children also struggle to cope with moving into secondary school and the extra workload and expectations. Sixth form students also start to worry about their next stage of life - leaving the world they have known for the last seven years or so.
鈥淲orking in a high achieving school, the students I see often tell me about the pressure of their personal statements and grades to get into university and choosing subjects for A level. They talk of parents wanting them take subjects they don't want to do, and we discuss how to manage this. Sometimes they share their fears of fitting in and finding friends at university and the practical arrangements of moving into adulthood.
Normalising stress
鈥淚f you are aware of a child or young person who is suffering from stress, it鈥檚 important to direct them to support - whether that is a teacher, pastoral member of staff, counsellor, and parents. Let them know they are allowed to feel their emotions and always keep communication open. Talking is sharing the load and allowing the young person to know they don't have to manage things on their own. Normalising stress is important for children to understand it is a part of life and we can learn to handle it with the right tools.鈥
At the end of November, 香港六合彩精准资料 will host a roundtable event with partners to explore the impact of the cost of living on children鈥檚 and young people鈥檚 mental health. 听
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