The pandemic seems to have led to a shift in the attitude of men towards mental health and the numbers seeking counselling support, says our Deputy Chair Michael Golding.

Michael was commenting on our new statistics released for Men鈥檚 Health Week which highlight men鈥檚 changing attitudes towards mental health and towards counselling and psychotherapy.

Our Public Perceptions Survey found that 78% of men say it鈥檚 more commonplace to discuss mental health than five years ago and that 83% of men say it鈥檚 a good idea to seek counselling or psychotherapy for a problem before it gets out of hand.

Tipping point

Michael said: 鈥淚n recent years it feels I鈥檓 being contacted by more men than before.聽

鈥淢y belief is that the pressures of the pandemic and lockdown may have led more men to that tipping point where people start to feel they need to do something about their situation.

鈥淚 also wonder if men are being encouraged by their families, and other men, to seek support.鈥�

It鈥檚 a view shared by our member Stefan Walters, who said that people in the public eye talking about their experiences has also helped to break down barriers.

Stefan said: 鈥淲e see male celebrities, sports figures and pop stars increasingly talking about their mental health. We鈥檙e seeing it discussed a lot more in the public domain.

鈥淎nd then we had COVID-19. I think with COVID there was an acknowledgement of this massive shared collective trauma, and people had to speak out.鈥�

Public Perceptions Survey results

Our survey also found that:

  • 79% of men agree it鈥檚 more socially acceptable to discuss mental health than five years ago
  • 69% of men say they鈥檙e more aware of mental health issues than five years ago
  • 68% of men say there鈥檚 less of a stigma around mental health compared to five years ago
  • 71% of men say people might be happier if they talked to a counsellor or psychotherapist about their problems
  • 69% of men say it鈥檚 better for people to talk to someone about their problems rather than to take medication

Men are also more likely to go for therapy now than a decade ago. Our research in 2010 found only 18% of men had been for therapy compared to 27% in 2022. However, women are more likely to go for counselling or psychotherapy (39%).

Michael said: 鈥淚鈥檓 not aware there is any evidence of there being a gender difference in people鈥檚 ability to manage their emotional distress, which leads me to think that men must be experiencing greater barriers to accessing this form of support.

鈥淭hat more men are seeking out counselling suggests that, hopefully, those barriers are being overcome.鈥�

Stereotypes

Our member Andrew Kidd said he believes masculine stereotypes are one of the most significant obstacles to men seeking mental health support.

He said: 鈥淔or men, therapy can be a liberating place to address the pressures connected with preconceptions and challenges of manhood without being seen as weak. 聽聽

鈥淚t can offer a lens to refine perspectives and transform the way we think about what it means to be a man while helping tear down barriers to accessing support.鈥�

Andrew said that another barrier could be that men do not know what happens in therapy.

鈥淒o we do a good enough job communicating to men what we actually do?" he said.

Better understanding

It鈥檚 a thought echoed by Michael, who said that 鈥渟ome men may fear they鈥檒l be forced to talk about things they may not wish to鈥�.

鈥淭here鈥檚 a sense for me that there鈥檚 an anxiety that once in the room the client gives away some degree of autonomy and will no longer be in control of the process,鈥� he said.

鈥淔or someone who has only limited control of their present situation this can be a challenge.

鈥淧erhaps if we were able to create a better understanding of what happens in the room, then more men would be willing to take a chance and give it a go.鈥�

There鈥檚 information on our website about what counselling is, what counselling can help with, and where you can access counselling.