Jacqui Bingham had been working full-time as a funeral director for 12 years until diagnosis with Alzheimer鈥檚 disease in 2018 aged 65 changed her life immeasurably.
Coming to terms with her new life has proved a struggle but counselling has helped.
Forced to stop work suddenly and to give up driving, Jacqui says she found herself frightened and confused leading to depression.
Feelings
鈥淣ot knowing what the future would bring with a degenerative brain disease was scary,鈥� she said. 鈥淎lthough I had read many books on Alzheimer鈥檚 disease, I needed more.鈥�
鈥淚 felt I needed a professional to talk to about my feelings of fear, anger and disappointment.鈥�
Affecting an estimated 850,000 people aged 65 and over in the UK, prevalence of dementia is expected to continue to rise with our ageing population.
There are also more than 40,000 people with 鈥榶oung dementia鈥� diagnosed before the age of 65.
Therapist
Jacqui鈥檚 experience of dementia services was that they didn鈥檛 include psychological support, so she contacted a therapist who she had worked with several years before and who she trusted.
鈥淚 started to value myself and believe that I could live well with dementia,鈥� she said. 鈥淎s we peeled back the fears and anxieties, I gave myself kindness and belief that I still had a life to live.
鈥淢y counsellor values and empowers me and I trust her with every feeling, memory and thought.
鈥淲e worked on the fears, anxieties and triggers and she taught me strategies to manage.鈥�
From feeling that her life had suddenly ended, Jacqui鈥檚 work with her counsellor rekindled her interest in art and she also joined the Dementia Diaries advocacy group of people living with dementia and using their experiences and voices to change attitudes, understanding and responses to dementia.
Move forward
Jacqui is concerned that talking therapy isn鈥檛 always offered or discussed with people with dementia and hopes that by telling her story, other people are encouraged to find out more about how counselling can help.
鈥淚 encourage you to go for counselling and find the person underneath the fears, anxieties and memories and let go and move forward to be the person you are meant to be,鈥� she said.
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Jacqui Bingham is concerned talking therapy isn鈥檛 always offered or discussed with people with dementia