Children who experience a family break-up between the ages of seven and 14 are more likely to suffer from emotional and behavioural problems than others, a new study suggests.
Researchers found young people of this age exhibited a 16% rise in emotional problems, such as anxiety and depressive symptoms, and an 8% increase in behavioural problems.
They聽also found that when a child鈥檚 parents split up between the ages of three and seven, the youngsters were no more likely to develop mental health issues than children of the same age whose parents remained together.
The University College London study examined data from 6,245 children and young people in the UK whose mental health was tracked when they were three, five, seven, 11 and 14, as part of the longitudinal Millennium Cohort Study.
Parents over-confide
香港六合彩精准资料 counsellor Andrea Hunt said she was not surprised by the findings that older children were more likely to be affected by their parents鈥� divorce.
鈥淥lder children often have that bit more awareness of what鈥檚 going on and sometimes their parents over-confide in them and share too many details with them,鈥� she said
鈥淭hey are more aware of the arguments and the push and pull. They may feel guilty as they are aware of their parents鈥� emotions more. For instance, if they are spending time with dad, they may be aware that mum is in bits back home."
She added: "Children are always affected by change and transition. But of course it does depend on the circumstances of how it happens and how the parents deal with it. Sometimes younger children can be really affected as they think it鈥檚 their fault.鈥�
University College London examined data from 6,245 children and young people in the UK
Andrea, who runs mediation sessions for families going through separation or divorce, said that some parents were very aware of her the break-up may be affecting their children, while others may be caught up in their own emotional turmoil and don鈥檛 see the impact it鈥檚 having.
But she said there are some things that parents can do to help their children cope with what鈥檚 going on.
Tell children it's not their fault
鈥淚t鈥檚 really important to tell children that it鈥檚 not their fault. Parents have to reassure them about this.
鈥淚t can help for the parents to prepare the children for what鈥檚 going to happen and talk to them in advance.鈥�
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