香港六合彩精准资料 member Danuta Lipinska says an award-winning training programme that aims to help people living with dementia cope through bereavement could be extended.
Danuta, who specialises in ageing and dementia care, developed the dementia-friendly funerals training for the East of England Co-op Funeral Service with Sharon Harkin, dementia champion at the East of England Co-op.
The programme won the Outstanding Dementia Care Innovation category at the National Dementia Care Awards 2018.
鈥淲e are delighted with how well the project has been received and are hoping to extend it鈥 she said.
The programme examines how people with dementia who have been bereaved and their families can be helped through the funeral process.
Danuta said that following the training, the funeral arrangers themselves decided to change their practice to make it more 'dementia friendly'. This includes a pre-meeting with the person living with dementia at their home to get to know them and their family, and to get to know about their life and reminiscences to include in the service.
She said at the funeral service itself, a 'funeral friend' can be there specifically to support the person living with dementia.
鈥淚t could be a friend, a neighbour,鈥 she said. 鈥淪omeone who is known to someone with dementia but not one of the chief mourners.
鈥淭hey can have with them whatever they need to support the person. It could be if they need to go out of the room, to provide their favourite snacks, a walk, music on their headphones, or just to be there for them.鈥
Chance to say goodbye
Danuta added: 鈥淧eople will be making decisions for the bereaved person who has dementia and sometimes, unfortunately, that is not to attend. They are concerned for their relative and fearful of what could happen and how others might respond.
鈥淔amily can be left a few weeks later with the person saying they don鈥檛 remember going to the funeral, and asking them "Where's John? Where is your Dad?". But we only have one chance to say goodbye.
鈥淪omewhere deep inside we have those reserve memories of what our cultural traditions and rituals are and just because a person has dementia doesn鈥檛 mean that long-term memory can鈥檛 be triggered, and they can be surprisingly present and aware and able to take part if given the chance.聽
鈥淪o the person living with dementia needs additional support, and so does their family, at a really traumatic time.鈥
Danuta said it was a complete shock to win the award.
鈥淵ou want everyone to win because what they are all offering is fantastic,鈥 she said. 鈥淭here were four other fantastic projects of exceptional value and worth. But the award will bring validation and kudos to the East of England Co-op and its staff in the funeral service for highlighting an unmet need in the community at one of life's most tender and difficult times.鈥