In this issue
Features
A kink in the process
Why more counsellors and therapistsÌýshould be prepared to work with BDSMÌý(bondage and discipline, dominance andÌýsubmission, sadism and masochism)Ìýclients within a non-judgemental andÌýnon-pathologising approach
Rapport in cyberspace
In the absence of body language, voice toneÌýand presence, how can online therapistsÌýbuild rapport with their clients?
Defining moments
Continuing the regulation debate, one Ïã¸ÛÁùºÏ²Ê¾«×¼×ÊÁÏÌýmember argues for the de-medicalisation ofÌýlife and for therapy as a human potentialÌýmodel
Destroying client records
In the absence of guidance, what optionsÌýdoes the practitioner have in the destructionÌýof client records?
Regulars
In practice
Kevin Chandler: A pile of dead leaves
In the client's chair
Emma Munro: Walking alone
In training
Martin Halifax: Endings and beginnings
Questionnaire
Paul Gilbert
Dilemmas
Maintaining confidentiality
Day in the life
Liz Macann
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Editorial
I was staggered when I realised recently thatÌýthis is my 100th issue of Therapy Today. SomeÌýof the debates that were raging a decade ago,Ìýare still with us. For example, one of my firstÌýtasks when I began working for the journal wasÌýto write an article (a rather naïve one at that)Ìýabout how regulation was sure to be in placeÌýby 2003 – at the very latest!
We have covered many topics in the past 100Ìýissues but have not to my knowledge touchedÌýon the subject of sadomasochism. One studyÌýhas reported that 14 per cent of men and 11Ìýper cent of women have personal experienceÌýof sadomasochistic sex so the chances ofÌýsomeone walking into our consulting roomÌýwho identifies as kinky are quite high. UnlessÌýwe have personal experience of the world ofÌýkink, we are unlikely to be confident to workÌýwith a client who discloses in therapy thatÌýthey are exploring this aspect of their sexuality.ÌýSu Connan argues that offering therapy toÌýthose who identify as kinky raises questionsÌýfor the therapeutic community such as thoseÌýthat have been raised by the gay communityÌýaround the need for awareness, training,Ìýethical practice and supervision. Clients needÌýtherapists who are not going to be shockedÌýor make them feel judged or indeed who willÌýcategorise them as pathological or sexuallyÌýdeviant and in need of treatment and cure.ÌýIn order to be able to offer ethical therapyÌýto these clients, Su argues, practitionersÌýneed to deepen their own knowledge andÌýunderstanding of the kink experience andÌýof the meanings that sadomasochistic sex hasÌýfor those who incorporate it into their lives.
The hunt is on for some new columnistsÌýas we say goodbye in this issue to our clientÌýEmma Munro who has shared her therapyÌýjourney with us for the last 18 months, andÌýMartin Halifax who has reached the end ofÌýhis counselling and psychotherapy diploma.ÌýIf you know people who might fill either ofÌýthese roles, please get in touch.
Sarah Browne
Editor