In this issue
Features
Vile bodies (free article)
Lucy-Jean Lloyd discusses aÌýproblematic area for someÌýadolescents
School counselling onÌýthe far side
Jeannie Wright reports onÌýfive years with counsellors inÌýNew Zealand
Savage beasts
What if fantasy becomesÌýpermanent? David TaransaudÌýdiscusses
In practice
Reading images
What questions help us toÌýwork with an image in session?ÌýMary K Greer explains
Not knowing
For Nick Luxmoore, it’s preferableÌýto admit to clients that he doesn’tÌýalways have answers
Adolescent families:Ìýa clinical tool
Paul Tiffin introduces hisÌýFamily Perceptions Scale
Extending our range
Hildy Bennett knows that clientsÌýwith severe learning difficultiesÌýcan and do make use of therapy
Issues
Self-help for self-harm
George Brooks encouragesÌýopen discussion and offers anÌýeffective tool
Smothering
The effects of this silent abuseÌýon a child’s ability to individuate.ÌýJo Warwick reports
CPD
Ten top tips for varying yourÌýCPD hours
Regulars
Destination PhD
with Val Taylor
Reflecting on… faith in theÌýprocess
Jeanine Connor
From the chair
Not all articles from this issue areÌý available online. Divisional members and subscribers can download the pdf from theÌýÏã¸ÛÁùºÏ²Ê¾«×¼×ÊÁÏ Children, Young People and FamiliesÌýarchive.
Welcome from the editor
Dealing with our bodies… assessing… not knowing…Ìýit’s all in the day’s work for counsellors of young people
Here we are, as promised, in our new finery. I hopeÌýyou find the journal approachable and relevant andÌýenjoy reading it over the summer. Please feed backÌýyour comments to me when you have a moment.
You will notice that our division is now namedÌýÏã¸ÛÁùºÏ²Ê¾«×¼×ÊÁÏ Children & Young People, and the journal hasÌýthe same title. I would love to mark this change in theÌýjournal’s life by having a really dazzling letters pageÌýabout matters that are relevant to us in our work withÌýyoung people, including responses to the articles weÌýpublish. In a quarterly journal, read at intervals, it’sÌýeasy to think ‘it’s too late now to bother’, but youngÌýpeople’s counsellors are a resourceful and flexible lotÌý(aren’t we?), so how about an Olympian effort toÌýmark the season? No comment is too short. NoÌýopinion off limits. Discussion is important. In case itÌýhelps, deadline dates for contributions now appear.ÌýMany of you also now approach me withÌýideas for articles, and I extend that invitation to youÌýall. We are a large community of over 4,000Ìýmembers, and I want the journal to reflect that factÌýin all its facets.
And now I’m going to ask you a personal question!ÌýHow many of you have ever hated your bodies? Yes,Ìýyou heard right! That’s how Lucy-Jean Lloyd startedÌýher workshop at a school counsellors’ conference lastÌýyear. Few were immediately willing to own up. WeÌýdon’t talk about our bodies in public – and it seemsÌýwe hesitate to bring up the topic in our sessions. YetÌýour young people need to have that opportunityÌýbefore their understandable adolescentÌýpreoccupations become the breeding ground forÌýmental ill health. So I commend this article to you,Ìýeven if the image of a ‘vile body’ feels a littleÌýuncomfortable.
Images of any kind bypass cognitive barriers andÌýlead to emotional awareness – as Mary K GreerÌýdemonstrates in her article on working with images.ÌýIf we question wisely, this process of talking about aÌýpicture (from any source) allows the young person toÌýsee reflected in the image something of theirÌýtorment, their concerns, their situation in life. I askedÌýMary to write for us because she is expert at usingÌýpictures in this way to empower young people’sÌýself-development. Here, she uses a tarot cardÌý(Judgement) to demonstrate some work. It couldÌýhave been a postcard. The theory is the same – butÌýin recent decades, tarot cards have been widelyÌýused for self-awareness and growth. In other words,Ìýpsychological development, not divination (ArtÌýRosengarten’s book1 makes for an interesting read,Ìýif you wish to pursue this connection). So if you’veÌýever wondered what and how to ask about an image,ÌýMary’s article is where to head.
However, not knowing everything about life is fine.ÌýIt’s the counsellor’s stock in trade. If we knew, weÌýwould make either risky assumptions or omnipotentÌýclaims. Neither is helpful to the client. NickÌýLuxmoore describes with his usual frank andÌýhumorous style how he manages the scary situationÌýof not having answers for his client – and how theÌýclient comes to find release in the sort of ‘notÌýknowing’ that is OK. It’s good enough.
In the same way, I cannot know if I have the mixÌýof content right for the journal, although I know it’sÌý‘good enough’. So I hope we can reach for ourÌýkeyboards to offer feedback on vile bodies, pictureÌýcards, ‘not knowing’ about life, your use (or not) ofÌýassessment scales, and any other article here thatÌýcaptures your attention in its new finery. That way,Ìýwe will learn together.
Eleanor Patrick
Editor
Reference
1 Rosengarten A. Tarot and psychology: spectrums ofÌýpossibility. St Paul, MN: Paragon House; 2000.